You can agree to disagree but we live in a superficial world. 

That's one of the MAIN reason why the world is going crazy, human beings looking like zombies waking up to a life they aren't even remotely excited about and the top 3% are controlling the rest of the world.

And... 650+ children are dying every hour even though the planet has more than enough food to feed everyone!

This is not a rant post. I'm here to breakdown the reasons why are we on a self destruction mode.

We live in a world that's governed by very specific Universal Laws.

Eg: Law of Gravity (You don't need to believe me or see it to believe it, just jump off the building and see what happens!)

Another Universal Law is now known by many is called the Law of Attraction.

Today, I would like to introduce another LAW to you.

The Law of Cause and Effect. You may also call it KARMA!

It's also explained in Newton's Third law of motion:
When one body exerts a force on a second body, the second body simultaneously exerts a force equal in magnitude and opposite in direction on the first body.

Albert Einstein also explained this is a simpler form.

You attract what you radiate.

That means.... whatever that's happening on the outside is a reflection of what's going on within yourself.

So... complaining isn't going to help change the situation because YOU ARE THE CAUSE of your reality!

Think of it like this.

The world is merely just like a mirror. And the mirror tells the truth!

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Look at the mirror right now and it shows you all your wrinkles, cellulite, pimples, while hair and so on....

If that's what you're looking for, you'll see everything in the mirror.

However, in the same reflection, there's also a beautiful face with a kind hearted soul staring back at you.

Again, you won't see this if you're only looking for faults.

So what you see, is a trajectory and projection of how you see the world.

Get it?

NO? Ok...

When we look into the mirror, most of us (me included) are often so critical of ourselves.

But have you ever wondered why are we being so critical of ourselves and the need to look magazine perfect all day everyday?

Where did this idea of the need to look perfect come from?

This NEED is an effect. And the CAUSE is caused by the subtle brain washing - thanks to all the magazines - that has conditioned us that we need to look a certain way to be ACCEPTED by society.

As a result, we insanely chase the stamp of approval by an entity that will never think we'll be good enough.... everrrrr......

Because the moment we actually believe that we're good enough, the TRILLION dollar beauty industry collapses. 

Therefore the marketing strategy is to destroy our self esteem!

So... we lose our identity and we're never happy.

The need to be approved by society is robbing us the joy of being our true selves. And as a result, we suppress and deny our feelings.

In a long run, we don't even know what to think anymore.

So... when that happens, it becomes our "Shadow" side.

You see... most of us are making decisions on a default mode and that's based on your past experiences, believe systems and the desire to stay within the comfort zone.

Your unconscious mind isn't trying to sabotage your success but it's really a survival mechanism.

Your unconscious mind loves you so much that it doesn't want you to get hurt again and remember those unpleasant memories.

That's the sole reason - to keep you alive! 

Human beings tend to avoid pain and we've been taught to only say the nice things to people, want to hear only the great things about ourselves and think positive.

But you know what?!

What you resist persists and the more you resist the dark side, the more the dark side will show up.

It's showing up not to torture you but instead it wants to be set free.

When we avoid anything, it usually won't go away.

Eg: If you're in a job you hate, the feeling won't go away until you do something about it. Or suck it up, tolerate and settle what you have.

Everyone has a secret compartment of shame and guilt and the compartment will only get bigger and bigger if you don't do a declutter.

This means you've to be brave and honest and look at yourself.

Don't just embrace the good qualities because we ALL have "bad" qualities too!

Everyone wants to be the good person - because there's the need to be liked!

However, YOU are the sum of your good and your "bad".

Emotions are neutral until you give it a story. Everyone wants be happy all the time so that they don't have to feel the pain!

But this isn't life! Life gave us a whole variety of emotions so that we can fully and truly experience LIFE!

To discover who we truly are.

Without the dark side, we'll all be Stepford Wives!

When you're ready to accept the fact that perhaps you're just as manipulating as your mother or you actually have a bad temper, everything will start to shift.

Because you'll now no longer avoid being you and you can full embrace all facades of you - including the INNER Bitch!

When that happens, we no longer project our unhappiness unto the world and as Dr. Wayne Dyer said, when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

Let's all be responsible and ask borrowing President's Kennedy quote....

Ask not what the world can do for you but what you can do for the world.

And what you can do for the world and humanity is simple!


According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, we need to SELF ACTUALIZE - "the desire for self-fulfillment, namely the tendency for him [the individual] to become actualized in what he is potentially."

Only then can we free the world and also FREE ourselves to pursue the life we truly deserve!

I wish you well.

P.S. I'm a visionary and I look at the big picture so please excuse any grammar or spelling mistakes if there're any.

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