Chances are NOPE!

I can understand. Because it's painful and the brain is wired to avoid pain and wired to move towards pleasure.

I'm sure the fact that you're here you want to SELF ACTUALISE.

However before you can SELF ACTUALISE, you need to SELF REALISE.
(Grammar may be wrong - but you get my fancy point right?)

Very often when I see people creating their lives, there's a between where they (really) are and where they want to be.

Thanks to the statement "Fake it till you make it".

However, if you've no money in your bank account, you've no money in your bank account no matter how much you fake it!

In fact, it may be worse when you start spending money you don't have just to feel rich.

If you're dating men who cheats on you, you can't fake it and pretend that he's a loyal puppy.

Only when you're ready to see the so called reality that you've created and take responsibility, then you'll take the appropriate action to turn your life around.

Notice I said appropriate action.

Eg: If you're not making money in your business for 12 months, shouldn't you either change your business plan, sell something different of GO GET A JOB TO FUND YOUR BUSINESS?

If you're constantly meeting men who aren't interested in a long term relationship, shouldn't you start to learn how to protect you heart and love yourself more?

Life always give you hints and signs but sometimes we're blinded by our emotions and refuse to see the reality that we've created.

As a result, we create big and bigger pot holes for ourselves!

You know the saddest thing in life isn't that people betray you or cheat on you. 

The saddest thing in life is that you can't be honest with yourself and you end up the biggest liar and abuser of all times to yourself.

You're the jerk to yourself.

If you want to be honest with yourself then you need to find a way to silence your ego.

Your ego cannot come and play with you in the game.

When you see the truth, I promise you that there'll be a light bulb moment and you won't take anything personally anymore and you're free to be whoever you desire to be!

I wish you well!

P.S. I'm a visionary and I look at the big picture so please excuse any grammar or spelling mistakes if there're any.

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