No one is born a drama queen. We've been taught to be drama queens or kings.


When my children were babies, I would always pick them up when they cried. But some well meaning people - who weren't parents, would tell me to ignore the cries as they were crying for nothing.

Seriously! A baby is pure energy knows how to manipulate YOU at 3 months or even 8 months old?

Are you for real?

Why does a baby really cry?

They cry because they're hungry, wet themselves, feeling uncomfortable and most of all they want your love!

Some years ago, I saw a post on Facebook about a mother who visited an orphanage who was shocked to discover that all the babies didn't cry.

She asked the lady in charge why is that so?

The lady replied because they knew that no one would come for them no matter how loud they cried.

This is a learned behaviour.

Therefore I stand by my point that we're NOT born drama queens - we've been taught.

As we were growing up, we would test our boundaries by testing our parents. But that's the way we needed to learn how to navigate around the world - this is called self discovery!

When we didn't have our way, we threw a tantrum and here comes what we want served in a gold platter.

We get punished for bad behaviours and rewarded for good behaviour. 

So we've learnt to use our emotions to demand for things.

As a result, we learnt HOW to manipulate!


That is why when things go wrong or we don't get what we want, all hell seems to break loose inside of us.

The inner 5 year old child acts out and you've lost control of your emotions even though you're matured in age.



My girls learning how to share a drink.

We look and judge the world and everyone else through our projections - our past experiences and our believe systems.

So believe people when they show you their drama because it's happening inside of them.

You can't see it or may not even understand what's the big freaking deal because you've a different persona and believe system altogether.

Don't be too quick to judge because the pain is real to them.

How can you drop the drama in you?



  1. Don't be too quick to judge.
  2. Show compassion.
  3. Sit with the trigger emotions.
  4. Ask yourself these 2 questions: - When was the last time you had this emotion? When was the FIRST time you had this emotion?
  5. Write down everything that comes up in your mind. (There's no right or wrong answers.)

When you allow yourself to be completely honest with who you are, you can release and break the patterns of pain!


You're FREE to become the woman you've always wanted to be and live beyond your wildest dreams.

All dramas are a triggers from the past. Triggers are gold and it's the key to unlocking your full potential!

Heal the past and change your future!

I wish you well!
















P.S. I'm a visionary and I look at the big picture so please excuse any grammar or spelling mistakes if there're any.

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